Gulfport Child Custody Lawyers
Being a parent is one of the hardest jobs you’ll ever have. It’s
even more difficult when you have to figure out custody disputes, navigate a
custody schedule, or even go through the pain and anxiety of a drawn-out
While child custody can be a stressful topic to discuss, you
don’t have to go through it alone. With the help of a family law attorney in
Mississippi, you can fight for your parenting time and defend your child’s best
interests. Get the assistance you need by calling the Gulfport child custody
attorneys at Holcomb & Associates—call us at 228-432-6652 to get started.
Different Types of Custody in Mississippi
As you start exploring your options and thinking about where you
may have room to compromise, make sure you are familiar with the different
custody types in Mississippi. The state recognizes both legal and physical
custody. Legal custody determines who is active in a child’s important life
decisions, such as where they go to school, which religion (if any) they
follow, and what type of medical care they receive. Physical custody determines
whom the child lives with most of the time.
One type of custody doesn’t necessarily determine the other. That
is, a parent receiving primary physical custody does not necessarily get sole
legal custody. Under Mississippi law, parents can split both types of custody,
split one type of custody and not the other, or give sole physical and legal
custody to one parent.
What Does the Court Prefer?
While it’s possible for one parent to get sole physical and legal
custody, that isn’t where the court starts. People often believe that the court
automatically favors one parent over the other, but that simply isn’t true. The
court takes the stance that a child is generally best served when they have
meaningful time with both parents and have both parents actively involved in
their lives. The goal is to protect the child’s relationship with both parents
without compromising their safety and stability.
The Best Interests of the Child
While both parents may have their own specific goals for a
custody dispute or disagree on what is best for their child, the court has its
own methods for deciding custody matters. As is the case across the country,
the best interests of the child in question are the top priority. The court
looks at 12 important factors when deciding what is in the child’s best
The child’s age, sex, and health
Who provided the child’s care prior to the
Which parent has stronger parenting skills
Which parent is more capable of being the
Each parent’s physical health, mental health,
Each parent’s work obligations
The child’s relationship with each parent
The parents’ moral fitness
How the child has fared at home, in school,
and in the community
The child’s preference once they reach the
age of 12
Each parent’s home environment and ability to
provide a stable environment
Any other relevant factors
Such a broad list of important factors gives the court
significant discretion when it comes to awarding custody to one or both
Navigating a Custody Dispute
What does this mean for you as you figure out a custody dispute?
It means that you need to keep your attention focused on what best serves your
child. It’s easy to get distracted or mix up what you want with what
your child wants. At times, this means taking a step back, looking at
the situation from an objective point of view, and potentially adjusting what
you are requesting.
Ideally, you and your ex-partner will be able to negotiate a
custody agreement without the court having to step in. While the court will
step in and make a determination if necessary, this is not in the best
interests of either parent. It completely strips them of their agency and their
role in the decision-making process. Before a case goes to court, we’ll go
through multiple rounds of negotiations to try to develop a custody agreement
that suits both parents and their child.
As you work through custody disputes, remember to consider
atypical scheduling times. A base schedule works well during the school year,
but you must also plan for winter break, spring break, and summer holidays.
You’ll also need to decide who gets each holiday and what will happen if the
child has an extracurricular event that interferes with a parent’s time. By
addressing all of these topics from the very start, you’ll avoid disputes and
misunderstandings down the road.
Modifying a Custody Order
A child custody order does not have to be set in stone. A number
of situations may call for a custody modification, including a significant
change in work obligations, a change in the child’s preferences, one parent
moving, or one parent becoming too ill to provide child care. With an attorney,
you can petition the court for a modification that addresses your current
How We Can Help
At Holcomb & Associates, we understand that custody disputes are
many parents’ greatest fear. You’re likely scared of losing time with your
child or suffering damage to your relationship. Take a deep breath and know
that we are committed to fighting for you and protecting your right to parent.
With our guidance every step of the way, you’ll feel confident
about your child custody case. We’ll look at the wide range of factors involved
in a custody decision, compare what you are asking for and what your ex is
asking for, and tailor our negotiating strategy accordingly. By involving you
throughout the process, you can have a say in one of the most important
decisions in your life.
Our assistance doesn’t end when your initial custody order is
established. We are always here to help with issues enforcing the order or
Contact Holcomb & Associates Now
Take the first step in establishing your custody order now. We’re
ready to sit down, look at your options, and help you come up with a plan that
suits your needs. Schedule a meeting now by calling us at 228-432-6652 or sending us a quick